Anglican Down Under: Married people have all made a mistake

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Married people have all made a mistake

Alain de Botton has something interesting to say about marriage!
(No, I am not returning to the subject of same-sex blessing / marriage and I won't publish comments made to this post which raise or mention the subject).

3 comments:

Suem said...: I'm so glad that almost 23 years ago I married the right person!
Joking apart, and although I think the article is too pessimistic, he is right to say that nobody is the "right" person if that means that nobody will be perfect. I don't actually see that as a negative but as a potential area for growth and learning.; June 2, 2016 at 8:00 PM
Peter Carrell said...: I am glad, Suem, you didn't write, "I'm so glad that 23 years ago I married the almost right person"!; June 3, 2016 at 6:58 PM
Matthew Bartlett said...: Wonderful article! Thanks PC; July 2, 2016 at 11:36 AM

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Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Married people have all made a mistake

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