You are welcome to comment but there is no particular expectation that this is a post for discussion here - discussion in your local church using these resources may be more fruitful ...
Explanation re terms used in list of resources below:
"Side
A" refers to the view that sexual activity is for faithful monogamous
relationships irrespective of gender...
"Side
B" referring to the view that sexual activity is for faithful monogamous
relationships between a man and a woman...
Thus
avoiding labels such as "traditional" and "revisionist"...
No
pretense is made of this list offering any sort of balance, but one might
describe it as somewhat diverse.
From
www.gaychristian.net
the Youtube video, "Through my eyes..." is a set of testimonies
which I think are of equal helpfulness irrespective of whether one is
"Side A" or "Side B". It has a 30pp booklet with three
sections, (1) for "Side B" churches; (2) for undecided churches and
those who don't discuss this at all, and (3) for "Side A" churches.
These are linked at https://www.gaychristian.net/resources/
From
http://sexualidentityinstitute.org/resources/videos/
(Mark Yarhouse) are six video links, three on homosexuality, three on gender
dysphoria. Mark comes from what I would describe as a compassionate, scholarly
Side B perspective. Side A folk won't agree with all of his views but
some Side B folk might not either. I found the clip titled "Sexual Identity
and the Question of Viocation" particularly helpful. Mark has also
written a paper attached below as "Yarhouse.pdf". Mark has written a
book Understanding
Gender Dysphoria: Navigating Transgender Issues in a Changing Culture which I found helpful
because it looked at this issue through three different perspectives; I suspect
that transgendered people would find much here to agree and disagree on. His
2013 book, Understanding Sexual Identity, is geared towards supporting
young people but applicable for any whose cultural context is either
Gay-affirming or shame-based (for the latter, read some conservative Christian
contexts).
Two
vimeo links on the page linked below contain (a) discussion on the manner in
which "the discussion" on diverse views of sexuality in the church
can happen constructively, and (b) an actual discussion from two very different
viewpoints discussed in a constructive manner. Useful irrespective of whether
Side A or Side B.
Sprirtualfriendship
is worth reading if one is Side B and other-than-heterosexual or if one is
simply compassionately interested. (Most of the) comments that folk have posted
in response to the articles are worth reading too.
Tim Keller has a very
helpful short interview clip on You Tube clip at https://youtu.be/IZFCB9sduxQ
. Side A folk will find plenty to disagree with. It might challange some
Side B folk too.
In
terms of books, The Gospel and Sexual Orientation is the best Side B
exposition I've read and has the advantage of being succinct.
Slaves,
Women & Homosexuals: Exploring the Hermeneutics of Cultural Analysis
uses these three case examples in the outline of his (William J Webb's) views.
Side B.
Gregory
Coles' Single, Gay, Christian : A Personal Journey of Faith andSexual Identity Published this year;
and was particularly encouraging. (Side B).
Wesley
Hill's Washed and Waiting: Christian Reflections on Faithfulness and
Homosexuality is both testimony and reflection (Side B).
Rosaria
Butterfield's Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert is testimony and
reflection from a woman who became a Queer Studies lecturer, adopted a lesbian
lifestyle, became a Christian, then (after some time) adopted a heterosexual
lifestyle. If one accepts Yarhouse's perspective of multiple homosexualities it
isn't so hard to understand that while her experience isn't the norm, it is
real. I found the most helpful part was her account of how she became a
Christian. Side B.
Books
currently on order are Changing Our Mind : Definitive 3rd Edition of the Landmark Call
for Inclusion of Lgbtq Christians with Response to Critics by David Gushee
which seems to promise one of the better arguments for a Side A perspective
from the point of view of a reader who is Side B; and William
Loader's Making Sense of Sex : Attitudes Towards Sexuality in Early
Jewish and Christian Literature (probably Side A).
The
website "Living Out" (livingout.org)
describes itself in these words: "We experience same-sex attraction and yet are
committed to what the Bible clearly says, and what the church has always
taught, about marriage and sex. We do not identify
as gay Christians, preferring to use the
term "same-sex attracted" (find out why)." They don't support reparative therapies. It has a range of
testimonies and articles, one of the best being a review of current academic
literature on the causes of same sex attraction which is attached as
serve_pdf_free.pdf below. Sam Alberry, one of the key folk of this website, has
a You Tube video at https://youtu.be/oAQ8S5gRvDY
Also,
courtesy of You Tube: The
Journey of a Gay Christian: A Short Documentary by Kyle Williamson; at https://youtu.be/ZfotzIBzhps
(Unsure whether Side A or Side B or both); Matthew Vines: "God and the Gay Christian" |
Talks at Google is a
Side A proponent being interviewed by a Roman Catholic priest, at https://youtu.be/HyVvjAdbaaQ
and Faithfully
Gay: A Documentary at https://youtu.be/h8mgVO88g-Y
And,
from a secular perspective, https://qlife.org.au/qlife-guides/
has some useful online fact-sheets; https://au.reachout.com/articles/coming-out
has some useful material incl a video clip; on bisexuality at https://youtu.be/oIUcSkAx668
.